Matter: Mother’s application in a proceeding, seeking orders for reportable intensive family therapy to be conducted by Dr B. to address alleged parental alienation of the mother by the father.
Facts: The children resided with the father and there was evidence the children’s relationship with the mother was fractured and the children had been resistant to contact with the mother since March 2022 when they last had supervised contact with the mother at a contact centre. It appeared the children had refused to participate in contact pursuant to a consent order made September 2022 that the younger child have unsupervised contact with the mother from after school until 7 pm each Friday afternoon which the older child could join if he desired. The court was unable to consider the mother’s allegation that the father had alienated the children from her in the interim hearing.
Newbrun J considered proposals for children to attend intensive family therapy in the context of mother’s allegations of parental alienation by father:
[9] The Court has a real concern that the children may be exposed to a significant risk of psychological harm if they participate in the intensive therapy Reportable Intensive Family Therapy (“RIFT”) model proposed by the Mother to be afforded by the psychologist Dr B. And further, the Court has a real concern that should the children be required to participate in the proposed intensive therapy RIFT model that they may well become even more resistant to spending time with the Mother; if this risk comes to pass, then the prospect of restoring the children’s relationship with the Mother may become even more difficult.
[38] As to the Mother’s proposed order that Dr B be permitted to conduct intensive four day family therapy RIFT model [Reportable Intensive Family Therapy], and provide an expert report in relation to the issue of parental alienation, the Court is of the view that such an order would not be in the best interests of the children, and nor would such an order be in the interests of justice, and in reaching these views, and in summary, takes into account the following matters having regard to rule 7.04 and section 13C(1)(c) Family Law Act 1975 (Cth):
Case type: Appeal against parenting order.
Facts: The father was an Australian resident who met and married the mother in Country B. They moved to Australia where their daughter was born in 2017. The father made repeated notifications to the Department of Child Safety alleging that the mother used corporal punishment to discipline the child contrary to Australian standards [44], [68]. From videos posted on social media by the father, it was evident that the father did not listen to the child and coached her to make allegations of violence against the mother [56], [111]. The mother did not speak English well and she yielded to the father’s demands to agree to his unsupervised contact with the child in consent orders [26]-[30].
In previous proceedings the Court ordered the father be assessed for drug and alcohol use but he refused to participate [19]. In a search of the premises executing a recovery order for return of the child, police found weapons at the father’s house and charged him with offences under the Weapons Act [36]. In 2015, the father was self-medicating with anti-anxiety drugs when he admitted himself as an inpatient in a mental health unit. He said he had daily intrusive thoughts about killing the mother [124]. He discussed with other inpatients a plan to stalk his treating psychiatrist with intent to harm him and his family [129]. The father’s mother (ie the child’s paternal grandmother) applied for a domestic violence order against the father in 2019 [143]. The Court considered that there was ‘ample evidence’ that the father had engaged in family violence towards the mother [149].
Issue: The best interests of the child.
Held: The Court ordered that the mother have sole parental responsibility for the child, that the child live with the mother and that the mother be permitted to relocate with the child. The Court ordered that the father should have no time and no communication with the child.
The mother did not pose a risk to the child [116]. After an intervention by police and a social worker, the mother changed her approach and reduced her reliance on physical discipline [67]. The child was happy living with the mother [290].
The father was assessed by a forensic psychiatrist as being a high risk of suicide and murder-suicide, including kidnapping and absconding with the child, and an even higher risk to others generally [234]. He was also assessed as having a narcissistic personality and an anti-social personality disorder [219]. His postings on social media and abusive threats against his wife were in breach of a court order and he demonstrated contempt towards the Family Court and legal processes [305].
Although the father claimed to be the victim of physical violence from the mother, what concerned Judge Vasta was the father’s coercive control of the mother:
Proceedings: The proceedings were for the determination of parenting arrangements for a five-year old child (X) of the two parties.
Issue: The parties agreed that the child should live with the mother. However, at issue was:
The alleged risks posed by the father were that:
Facts: The mother left her home country at a young age for another foreign country for an arranged marriage with the father and the couple later moved to Australia. The mother had only a basic level of education and spoke very limited English.
The parties separated after living together in Melbourne for two years. The mother applied for a protection order and the child (X) lived with her. Pursuant to an interim parenting order, X spent a few hours of supervised contact with his father each week. Subsequently, unsupervised contact was ordered with changeover at a supervised contact centre. The mother was late to changeover on several occasions and eventually stopped bringing X altogether before moving with the child to Sydney.
The mother made extensive allegations of family violence against the father which occurred over the course of their marriage and afterwards. These included coercive and controlling behaviour, physical abuse such as choking and beatings, sexual assault, threats and humiliation (both from the father and family/community members), monitoring her movements, denying her economic autonomy and depriving her of liberty.
The alleged risks posed by the father were that:
Reasoning: Beckhouse J accepted the mother’s account, finding that:
Beckhouse J stated that it was not necessary to make factual findings about the occurrence of each alleged individual incident ([202], s4AB(1)). The lack of eye-witnesses, inconsistencies and delayed reporting were not an impediment, particularly given the cultural barriers to disclosure. The mother’s evidence was detailed and specific, corroborated by external agencies and was understood in the context of the cyclical nature of family violence and her cultural and personal background. The father’s ‘blanket denials’ offered no plausible explanation or alternatives.
Beckhouse J found that this risk could not be ameliorated. The father had displayed a lack of responsibility for his conduct and demonstrated no desire to change. His extensive familial and community support network was viewed as a ‘double-edged sword,’ as the paternal family potentially helped conceal his conduct and he failed to understand how ongoing communication with the maternal family impacted the mother.
It was determined that contact orders would cause the mother stress and anxiety, to the detriment of her parenting ability. Given this and the risk that X would be leveraged as a weapon, both supervised time and video communication were deemed unviable.
Orders: The child reside with the mother and she have sole parental responsibility. The child have no contact or communication with the father, the child be removed from the international travel watchlist and the mother be permitted to obtain a passport for the child and travel overseas without the father’s consent.
Additionally, the father was permitted to send X a birthday message every year.
Backhouse J noted at [243] that in establishing whether a person is ‘fearful’ under s4AB(1) : “fear can arise from a culmination of events and patterns of behaviour”.
Backhouse J observed at [202]:
…There are some specific individual characteristics in this matter that lead me to place less weight on inconsistent versions of events given by the mother. English was not the mother’s first language. She was poorly educated. She spoke through an interpreter. I cannot be satisfied she would have understood how domestic and family violence is defined in Australia.