Coercive control
Understanding coercive control
The National Principles to Address Coercive Control in Family and Domestic Violence (‘National Principles’), which were released by the Australian and state and territory governments in September 2023 recognise that coercive control is almost always an underpinning dynamic of family and domestic violence. Coercive control involves perpetrators exerting power and dominance over victim-survivors using patterns of abusive behaviour that create fear and deny liberty and autonomy. Perpetrators may use physical or non-physical abusive behaviours, or a combination of both.
The National Principles set out a shared understanding about the common features and impacts of coercive control, and guiding considerations to inform responses. The principles were developed to help raise awareness of coercive control, inform more effective responses to family and domestic violence, and promote more consistent support and safety outcomes for victim-survivors. The development and implementation of legal and justice responses to coercive control should be underpinned by the shared understanding of coercive control established by the National Principles.
The National Principles were informed by a literature review by the Australian Institute of Family Studies, and developed through extensive public consultation and guidance from an Expert Advisory Committee comprising victim-survivors and representatives of groups at increased risk of coercive control, academic, legal, and social service experts, and family violence advocates.
Professor Evan Stark has described coercive control as ‘a pattern of domination that includes tactics to isolate, degrade, exploit, and control’ victims. A perpetrator’s abusive behaviours can be subtle and insidious, and individually targeted and tailored to the victim-survivor. Behaviours or actions used to control a victim-survivor may not be readily apparent to people outside the relationship without considering the broader pattern of behaviour over time.
The behaviours associated with coercive control can take many different forms including any of the forms of domestic and family violence considered in this benchbook. Common behaviours that may be used by perpetrators as part of coercive control include but are not limited to:
controlling what a person does, such as what they wear, what they eat, and where they go
isolation from friends and family
emotional abuse including humiliation and threats and intimidation
surveillance and monitoring, often carried out online
regularly criticising a person, or manipulating or blaming them so they doubt themselves and their experiences (often referred to as ‘gaslighting’)
stopping a person from following their religion or spiritual or cultural practices
Victim-survivors commonly describe coercive control as feeling like ‘walking on eggshells’ and report they need to ask permission to do small everyday things and fear the repercussions of not fulfilling their abuser’s expectations or demands.
In some relationships physical violence is part of the pattern of coercive control and incidents of physical violence may be routine and frequently repeated. Other victim-survivors report that physical violence is rare or a once-off and occurred early in the relationship, but establishes the abuser’s capacity and potential for physical violence.
Some perpetrators who utilise coercive control do not perpetrate physical violence and use other methods to establish and maintain control.
Perpetrators can misuse or manipulate services, systems and processes (such as within the legal, child protection or social service systems) to facilitate their abuse. This is referred to as ‘systems abuse’.
A perpetrator may also target the victim-survivor's children to extend their control, sometimes using children as a tool of surveillance or intimidation.
Perpetrators using coercive control draw on their specific knowledge of the victim-survivor to entrap them, and the tactics used to assert control may change over time.
The impacts of coercive control are pervasive, and may include detrimental impacts on emotional, psychological and physical health, social connections, cultural and spiritual beliefs, and economic security. Impacts are also intersecting and cumulative, rather than incident-specific. Many victim-survivors identify that non-physical abuse deeply impacts on their sense of self and freedom, and often continues to affect them years after separation. Many victim-survivors also report that the most difficult forms of abuse they experienced were non-physical, especially emotional abuse.
Coercive control is gendered and is mainly perpetrated by men against women. Coercive control can be used by perpetrators against current or former intimate partners, as well as in family dynamics where control may be exerted by parents over children, by adult children or grandchildren over elders, or between siblings. Coercive control is particularly prevalent in relationships where there is an imbalance of power.
Coercive control may occur throughout a relationship, or may begin or escalate at times of heightened risk, for example, pregnancy, attempted or actual separation, and during court proceedings. Where a perpetrator perceives certain events to be a threat to their control and domination over the victim-survivor, they may escalate abusive behaviours to attempt to re-establish, maintain or increase control.
The community and broader service and response system, including law enforcement and the courts, can typically focus on physical violence and single or episodic acts of violence in isolation, rather than considering patterns of abusive behaviour over time and their cumulative impacts. This can make it easy for perpetrators to hide their actions, and the abuse being overlooked and/or minimised.
Incident-based responses can also heighten the risks of misidentifying the victim-survivor as the perpetrator. This can occur when first responders or other service providers or systems fail to recognise when someone is using physical force or other behaviours against a perpetrator to protect themselves and other family members, often children and young people. Services and systems responding to coercive control can then misidentify the person most in need of protection and charge the victim-survivor incorrectly as the predominant aggressor.
Use of retaliatory violence or self-defence against a perpetrator are not coercive control.
As coercive control depends on context, evidence or information about the context and pattern of behaviours – or how a particular action or behaviour has become a tool of control – may assist the decision-maker to identify coercive control and also help ensure the victim-survivor is not misidentified as a perpetrator.
Some judicial officers have considered coercive control. A selection of examples are considered in the tab attached to this subsection.
Researchers have suggested that coercive control is a common thread running through risk identification and assessment for domestic violence.
Last updated: July 2024
Coercive control
Understanding coercive control
The National Principles to Address Coercive Control in Family and Domestic Violence (‘National Principles’), which were released by the Australian and state and territory governments in September 2023 recognise that coercive control is almost always an underpinning dynamic of family and domestic violence. Coercive control involves perpetrators exerting power and dominance over victim-survivors using patterns of abusive behaviour that create fear and deny liberty and autonomy. Perpetrators may use physical or non-physical abusive behaviours, or a combination of both.
The National Principles set out a shared understanding about the common features and impacts of coercive control, and guiding considerations to inform responses. The principles were developed to help raise awareness of coercive control, inform more effective responses to family and domestic violence, and promote more consistent support and safety outcomes for victim-survivors. The development and implementation of legal and justice responses to coercive control should be underpinned by the shared understanding of coercive control established by the National Principles.
The National Principles were informed by a literature review by the Australian Institute of Family Studies, and developed through extensive public consultation and guidance from an Expert Advisory Committee comprising victim-survivors and representatives of groups at increased risk of coercive control, academic, legal, and social service experts, and family violence advocates.
Professor Evan Stark has described coercive control as ‘a pattern of domination that includes tactics to isolate, degrade, exploit, and control’ victims. A perpetrator’s abusive behaviours can be subtle and insidious, and individually targeted and tailored to the victim-survivor. Behaviours or actions used to control a victim-survivor may not be readily apparent to people outside the relationship without considering the broader pattern of behaviour over time.
The behaviours associated with coercive control can take many different forms including any of the forms of domestic and family violence considered in this benchbook. Common behaviours that may be used by perpetrators as part of coercive control include but are not limited to:
controlling what a person does, such as what they wear, what they eat, and where they go
isolation from friends and family
emotional abuse including humiliation and threats and intimidation
surveillance and monitoring, often carried out online
regularly criticising a person, or manipulating or blaming them so they doubt themselves and their experiences (often referred to as ‘gaslighting’)
stopping a person from following their religion or spiritual or cultural practices
Victim-survivors commonly describe coercive control as feeling like ‘walking on eggshells’ and report they need to ask permission to do small everyday things and fear the repercussions of not fulfilling their abuser’s expectations or demands.
In some relationships physical violence is part of the pattern of coercive control and incidents of physical violence may be routine and frequently repeated. Other victim-survivors report that physical violence is rare or a once-off and occurred early in the relationship, but establishes the abuser’s capacity and potential for physical violence.
Some perpetrators who utilise coercive control do not perpetrate physical violence and use other methods to establish and maintain control.
Perpetrators can misuse or manipulate services, systems and processes (such as within the legal, child protection or social service systems) to facilitate their abuse. This is referred to as ‘systems abuse’.
A perpetrator may also target the victim-survivor's children to extend their control, sometimes using children as a tool of surveillance or intimidation.
Perpetrators using coercive control draw on their specific knowledge of the victim-survivor to entrap them, and the tactics used to assert control may change over time.
The impacts of coercive control are pervasive, and may include detrimental impacts on emotional, psychological and physical health, social connections, cultural and spiritual beliefs, and economic security. Impacts are also intersecting and cumulative, rather than incident-specific. Many victim-survivors identify that non-physical abuse deeply impacts on their sense of self and freedom, and often continues to affect them years after separation. Many victim-survivors also report that the most difficult forms of abuse they experienced were non-physical, especially emotional abuse.
Coercive control is gendered and is mainly perpetrated by men against women. Coercive control can be used by perpetrators against current or former intimate partners, as well as in family dynamics where control may be exerted by parents over children, by adult children or grandchildren over elders, or between siblings. Coercive control is particularly prevalent in relationships where there is an imbalance of power.
Coercive control may occur throughout a relationship, or may begin or escalate at times of heightened risk, for example, pregnancy, attempted or actual separation, and during court proceedings. Where a perpetrator perceives certain events to be a threat to their control and domination over the victim-survivor, they may escalate abusive behaviours to attempt to re-establish, maintain or increase control.
The community and broader service and response system, including law enforcement and the courts, can typically focus on physical violence and single or episodic acts of violence in isolation, rather than considering patterns of abusive behaviour over time and their cumulative impacts. This can make it easy for perpetrators to hide their actions, and the abuse being overlooked and/or minimised.
Incident-based responses can also heighten the risks of misidentifying the victim-survivor as the perpetrator. This can occur when first responders or other service providers or systems fail to recognise when someone is using physical force or other behaviours against a perpetrator to protect themselves and other family members, often children and young people. Services and systems responding to coercive control can then misidentify the person most in need of protection and charge the victim-survivor incorrectly as the predominant aggressor.
Use of retaliatory violence or self-defence against a perpetrator are not coercive control.
As coercive control depends on context, evidence or information about the context and pattern of behaviours – or how a particular action or behaviour has become a tool of control – may assist the decision-maker to identify coercive control and also help ensure the victim-survivor is not misidentified as a perpetrator.
Some judicial officers have considered coercive control. A selection of examples are considered in the tab attached to this subsection.
Researchers have suggested that coercive control is a common thread running through risk identification and assessment for domestic violence.
Last updated: July 2024